Here, i will try to share my study about relationship... maybe, i'm very stupid about this.."I try to learn how to choose the right life partner" you know the right life partner is someone who want to be marry with u.
Maybe you are one of the millions of people who have been dating multiple times but the relationship always ran aground for various reasons. From high school performance boys, BEM chairs on campus, outstanding students, or colleagues, maybe you've had a relationship with them, all the types you've tried, but unfortunately the relationship must end. And most of the reasons the relationship should end up is "not suitable." Or maybe you are a long-time person, and when asked, "Why do not you have a boyfriend?" You will answer with reason "No one is right." (I often hear my friends say this).
Okay, here I will explain some ways to find the right match for you.
1. Know yourself
Before you determine your partner's criteria, you must understand yourself first. This needs to be done so that you know what kind of partner can help to develop. Please contemplate. Are you extrovert or introvert? Do you like a well-organized routine or something spontaneous? Do you tend to use feelings or logic in solving problems? Once you recognize yourself, you become aware of what kind of person you need and can take you for what it is. Not only that, you also have to consider the purpose of life you want to achieve, and you can find a partner who can help you reach that goal.
2. Find a partner with different characters
This needs to be done in order for you to have a balanced relationship. However, does this come back to the orientation of the relationship you want, short term or long term? If you want a short-term relationship, maybe you will be able to feel more comfortable with someone who has similar characteristics to you. However, if you want a long-term relationship, it needs to be done so that your partner can keep up with you and also so you can be motivated to do new things. In addition, for those of you who like challenges, looking for a partner with different characters will be a matter of interest to you, your life will become more varied and colorful.
3. Ideally, the introduction period of at least 2 years
Why? If you think you've found someone who suits your criteria and you think he can help you achieve your life goals, it's good you do a period of recognition or dating for at least 2 years. For 2 years, you will pass two important dates, such as birthdays, anniversaries, or religious days. In the first year, a person will usually show his or her best side, like giving a surprise on your birthday and giving a special gift during your anniversary. Therefore a second year is needed to see the person's consistency in treating you. If it turns out all his treatment to you in the second year is still the same as the way he treated you in the first year, it means he has not only always shown his best side, but he is the best person for you.
4. Except, have another 'handle'
There is a time when we are already convinced we find the right partner. My advice before you go any further, pay attention to other variables. Culture in Indonesia is very unique. When it comes to relationships, couples find it difficult to be 'idealistic'. These two factors are often the 'hold':
The family's tendency to 'interfere' in the adoption of a spouse becomes a dominant factor. Especially when the word 'marriage' is mentioned. Who will get married not only two people, but the whole family. The Indonesian people strongly prioritize the family for any decisions taken so that this consideration demands a personal adjustment to the continuity of the relationship.
In addition to family involvement, Indonesia as a country with diverse religions, often mixed with culture as well, makes every individual needs to make adjustments to himself and how to create a state that can be 'accepted' by all parties.
The conclusion is that you as an individual know the purpose of your own life first, then discuss with your partner whether you are on the same 'book'. Make sure there is something 'held' and I'm sure everything will be fine.
You can practice these four things in finding the right partner. However, it is also no less important in finding a partner is a broad association. So your chance to meet new people (who may be your soul mate) is getting bigger.
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